Wanting To Make Some Buddies

[glen]

not at this stage. <img src='http://www.melbournechat.org/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.gif' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':fishie:' />



but you can chat at slow motion in the forum <img src='http://www.melbournechat.org/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.gif' class='bbc_emoticon' alt='' />

[Kara85]

my bf broke up with me over the phone last night :'(

[Kara85]

naww thanks Peter ... so did i ... maybe he'll come to his senses

[Kara85]

well i didn't say that exactly did i!?



I'm going to see him tonight in hope when we close our relationship chapter we can open a new chapter for friendship. It seems promising.

[Kara85]

thanks .... it will .... we're on good terms ... so it'll just be a friendly starting over sorta night i think.

[annabie]

Hi, I'm Anna, a new member here <img src='http://www.melbournechat.org/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/biggrin.gif' class='bbc_emoticon' alt='' />

[Kara85]

[quote name='annabie' post='28301' date='Jul 23 2010, 08:30 PM']Hi, I'm Anna, a new member here <img src='http://www.melbournechat.org/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/biggrin.gif' class='bbc_emoticon' alt='' />[/quote]



Hi Anna ... tell us a bit about yourself and what brought you to Aust Chat?

[Kara85]

yah went pretty good .... tho i am still confused about the whole thing ... just have to try and accept he doesn't want to be with me and respect that and try for friendship n move forward. I tend to hold onto someone until i meet someone new so i guess it's just deciding when it's ok to start the search again :S

[annabie]

[quote name='PeterJMelb' post='28303' date='Jul 23 2010, 10:13 PM']Hi Anna.



Tell us some more.[/quote]

Okay, I'm 19 years old. I love traveling, eating chocolate, watching movies, especially in the cinema. <img src='http://www.melbournechat.org/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.gif' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':laugh:' /> Is that enough or what do you want to know more <img src='http://www.melbournechat.org/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/Whistle.gif' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':Chicken:' />

[johnbateman]

Hi Kara,



It's tough for me as well as I HAVE to see and have contact with my ex from a 13 year long relationship as we share a child together.



The longer the ex is in your life the longer it may take you to move on, not to another relationship, that's a bad idea, but move on in your growth as a person to become a whole and happy individual who enjoy's your own company and does not need another person to make them happy.



Good luck with it all!

[Kara85]

thanks johnbateman ... i am already to that stage now i think, where i enjoy my own company ... a partner is a plus ... i do really enjoy the company though, it adds a lot to ones life i think.



That would be hard having to see ya ex when you don't want to. I have accepted that it's over for the best now and we have successfully caught up a couple times as friends since and it seems to feel quite comfortable and hopeful. only time will tell however.

[johnbateman]

[quote name='Kara85' timestamp='1280985662' post='28609']

thanks johnbateman ... i am already to that stage now i think, where i enjoy my own company ... a partner is a plus ... i do really enjoy the company though, it adds a lot to ones life i think.



That would be hard having to see ya ex when you don't want to. I have accepted that it's over for the best now and we have successfully caught up a couple times as friends since and it seems to feel quite comfortable and hopeful. only time will tell however.

[/quote]



It is difficult but I have no desire to get back with her so don't find it an overly emotional experience.



Company is always good be it friends or family, having a partner can enhance your life but can also take away from your individuality. I think people put waaaaaay to much pressure on themselves to always be in a relationship. My life is enjoyable enough at the moment, loving going to the film festival which is on at the moment and spending time reading, watching DVD's, work keeps me busy so I hardly get time to even think about feeling lonely.

[fruitloop]

Hi, I don't know how to use this site really. I had a message from John and Kara, yet I can't see them. I am happy to chat, if I find out how to do this ........lol How to find someones message also confusing me.





Valerie in Craigieburn.

[johnbateman]

[quote name='fruitloop' timestamp='1280988841' post='28616']

Hi, I don't know how to use this site really. I had a message from John and Kara, yet I can't see them. I am happy to chat, if I find out how to do this ........lol How to find someones message also confusing me.





Valerie in Craigieburn.

[/quote]





I am the same, can't figure out the chat thing.

[Kara85]

i didnt even realise there WAS chat .. i've gotta check this out!

[fruitloop]

Hahahaa I can't see you on line either John. Are you anonymous? This is weird!!!! I am fruitloopy!!!





Valerie.

[Kara85]

as far as i can see there isn't a chat option ... it's always been a forum without a chat option ...... so how come everyone is here online today - no work today?

[johnbateman]

No I'm working but it's just really quiet here today.

[Kara85]

[quote name='johnbateman' timestamp='1280989659' post='28622']

No I'm working but it's just really quiet here today.

[/quote]



ah right, what do you do (john?) ?



I got sent home today coz i have the head flu that's been going around. Thankfully i only work mon-thurs so it's weekend for me now!

[fruitloop]

[quote name='johnbateman' timestamp='1280989659' post='28622']

No I'm working but it's just really quiet here today.

[/quote]



Work.............yucky poo's. I am against working. I let my hubby do that............lol